They say that things must come to an end, but I believe that some things are just better left unsaid and continue instead of ending for no apparent reason.

I believe that a bird can not fly without its wings- however when they’re young don’t they first need to fly before they can actually head up there and soar???

So most times I see myelf as a bird. I don’t have the wings or the fetahers and I certainly can’t fly but guess what…..I can SOAR!

I soar all the time to higher heights. If I were really a bird, I’d be an eagle- flying so high and soaring all the time- straight to the top!

C.A.F.V

To lose someone you love is definitely something HARD and HEARTBREAKING! It happens everyday, and it will soon happen to one of us.

Death is not an easy thing to understand or to deal with. No matter how simple someone dies, whether it is through illness or murder- it never really is understood and it is not easy to accept UNLESS you are willing to let go…..

I have lost the one’s I’ve loved BUT I have always been able to come to terms with it since it hurts but it heals…..To my beloved friend, my sister, my chica and most of all my sister- I can do nothing but sympathise and pray for you and your family during this rough time. As much as I wish to empathise…placing myself in your shoes I can not feel the pain and anguish that you and your family will be faced with :-(

I love you and I want you to know that during this time all you need to do is just call on me…every step of the way I will be there!

Here is something to try to uplift your spirits and I hope that you heal soon time…..

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.- Philippians 4: 4-7

Hold faithfulness and sincerity as first principles. – Confucius

Love always
Chazzie boom

I once heard and read that love kills slowly. I never really took the time out to examine the little phrase until my NEW YEAR started. It pretty much feels like the OLD YEAR- as yucky and bitter, but I’m trying my best to make something good out of it.

I’m going to be very honest. My new year did not start off good and from the looks of it- it is NOT continuing good at all.

I shall not go into detail of my lousy beginning of year but I will surely make you understand that everything has meaning and reasoning behind it. Every story has an ending, but every ending is just a new beginning and this my friends is so true.

I can’t believe that I am at a point where I have given up. I feel myself drowning in my sorrows and its pathetic. I feel like I’m on the verge of a breakdown and nothing I mean nothing can keep me away from this weakness.

Love can make us do silly and stupid things. Things that we regret and am I a sucker for regrets. I may have stated previously that I love crying and it is especially true but now I am realising that this may just be a way that love can kill.

All my pride and dignity- all the faith! I bare not shame but a feeling of disgust. Oh how I hate the way I feel when I am disappointed.

I do not believe that love is blind however it should be noted that everything we take a liking too or shall I say LOVE can turn out to be a real hard stab in the back.

I feel like my love is slowly killing me….and all that remains is my dark shadow which once stood behind me.

What does this make me now??? What do I say to people who look up to me for advice- how do I handle my own sick situation….???

I need not worry about my future as the present is what currently exists, therefore should I do or die…They say love kills slowly and that it too is blind but it also says hat love is not jealous or envious, it is not greedy….but we make it all which it is NOT!

They say love kills slowly and I say the heart breaks QUICKLY- so do ensure that you remember where love stands with you :-)

Chari

Hey All,

I’m guessing that Christmas was great and the weekend was fine! I hope you did all your catching up, caring and sharing! All the joy in the world, peace on Earth and good will to man was revealed….Anyways it is approximately two days before the New Year and how are you going to welcome it?

That’s something to think about isn’t it? Well if you happened to be a grinch or scrooge this christmas and the visits from the spirits of x-mas eve didn’t bother you then I don’t know what else to say except stop acting like an old grump and start fresh- make a chnage in YOUR life!

The New Year wouldn’t be a NEW YEAR if you didn’t leave behind the past and take on something new…..after all it’s a NEW YEAR with OLD REGRETS

If there is probably one thing I hate, it’s a grumpy old person- besides the usual selfish, self centered, snobbish and the list can go on- but that’s besides the point. I need for you to think about your future. What does it hold for you? How are you going to live the rest of your life?

Well I have been able to compile my list, add a few things, change some more stuff and I’m just waiting to make them happen.

What will you count down too….Food for thought- try to make your own resolutions and may all be true and good!

Till next time …… the final stretch (Time for Reflection)

Chari

mak

Hey everyone it’s the eve of christmas and I just want to wish you all a Merry X-mas. It’s going to be a good one this year no matter what you think. You must believe and you must make it happen for you and your loved ones!

To all the scrooges and grinches- it only lasts a day; why do you want to be a grinch or a scrooge forever?? Make the best of this X-mas and remember good will to all mankind and peace on earth!

You too have a conscience and you too want to be festive and joyous this season!

I do hope that you all enjoy and make the best of it after all its only once a year and just for a DAY!

I want to leave you with my favourite Dr.Suess and probably yours too…lol

How the grinch stole X-mas….Do enjoy!Merry X-mas Again!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XL0uu_q2grc&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xkDELa8YSqY&feature=related

Hey Everyone,

It’s definitely that time again, the time for MORE caring and sharing, the time for giving EXTRA love and showing people how much you truly appreciate them.

It’s also the time when we acknowledge our heavenly father. Give thanks for all that he has done and give him praise as he continues to give peace on Earth.

I just want to wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

I also want to ensure that you all have a peaceful, accident free and enjoyable season. Make the best of 2009 and maybe you should start thinking about your New Year’s resolutions.

Don’t wait for the end of the year or the beginning of the new one- make haste while the sun shines……or something like that (lol)

Once again Season’s greetings and joyous and festive Rest of Year!

Chaz

Can you believe that it’s lready the 17th December, 2k8!!!  WOAH! Well let me first off say Happy Birthday to my friend Letha- hope its alllll good sweety and to the rest of the december borns out there who’s day has come and gone belated greetings to you! I am sooooo happy man.

Although I’m extremely late with my posts I am still happy.

Tomorrow is my gr8 day…finally the big 2-0 but what about 2-1 :-) I mean what do birthdays mean to you? how do you celebrate it…does it really mean much to you or is is just another day???

I definitely look at my birthday as a time for refelction on my last years and this year its going to be a whoole lot different. I’m not going to have my annual photo shoot or my annual “BFF sleepover” or my walk around town day or anything like that. It’s going to be a normal day but only around MOI…I’m not accustomed to that but since this is a new double digit and a new year- I’m going to try something NEW!

I’ll be sure to tell u alll about it and I’m hoping its a GR8 one !

Well peace and out and till next time :-)

Miss V

Hey yall,

I’ve missed you guys so much. I must say time is against me….I can’t believe that it’s already the 21st November…the month I was very much looking forward too…and such a sweet one it has been!

I’ve made some changes AGAIN…I have cut my hair..I always say dare to be bold and so said so done :-) The hair has grown out already- AMAZINGLY and it’s going to remain that way for as long as I live :-)

Sweet Sweet November…I ownder how it’s been tretaing you my readers?? It’s been good, fun, hard but all in all it’s been a good month.

I keep looking on the brighter side of things..it’s as if things are just falling into place once again and HOPE and FAITH are certainly an INSPIRATION to me :-)

I’ve been ever so busy- exam time again at BOCAGE and being part of extra curricular activities and what not…also being a darling companion, wonderful daughter, hell of a godmother and of course the mature sibling…A LOT to handle but I’m mangaing…OH and lets not forget the oh so reliable BUDDY :-)

I’m feeling GROOVY tonight. This is also the first of many friday nights for the past two months that I am awake at this time…I mean it’s way past my bed time…and thats an example of how hard I work and how tired I feel after wards :-)

I miss making my site my priority then again I miss A LOT of things (too numerous to mention)- This Xmas I’m definitely going to ask Santa to pass my way…down the little lane because I don’t wnat the charcoal or the empty stocking which seems to be what I will get….No Suzie (the thought makes me want to cry) which is top of the list and there are other stuff which I’d prefer to keep within.

Hopefully next year will be a brighter and more productive one which will in turn have a POSITIVE effect on the rest of my life.

Anyways back to sweet November……will be gone in about a week but what the heck…time waits for no man so enjoy the rest of the month and in case I don’t find myself here by the 30th posting something excellent then……I’ll be sure to give you a wonderful bang into the month od DECEMBER :-)

Take Care and keep reading :-)

Lady F

Hey yall I was soo caught up and sooo side tracked that I never wrote up the post of CONGRATULATIONS to PRESIDENT ELECT BARACK OBAMA!

Yaye! and three more cheers for him. I am extremely happy for him and more so his wife and daughters…..it would be a great site to see them settle into the white house…..hey and like I say

“BLACK IS THE NEW WHITE” :-)

Well as usual there is talk and controversy etc but there is also the truth…and whilst checking my email I got this article entitled “Interesting news about the president” so I thought…what is it this time; and to no avail it was actually what I hoped for- GOOD NEWS!

I’m going to post the article below and if you’ve read it already I hope you keep passing it on and in case you haven’t then take the time to read it :-)

Again POWER TO THE PEOPLE…..doesn’t matter what colour, race, ethnicity, nationality, family background, culture….it’s all about the PEOPLE!

…………..and here is the article………….

The Norwegian newspaper VG has reported a truly amazing story about a newly-wed trying to get to Norway to be with her husband, and the stranger who helped pay an unexpected luggage surcharge. The blog ‘Leisha’s Random Thoughts’ has translated the story.

It was 1988, and Mary Andersen was at the Miami airport checking in for a long flight to Norway to be with her husband when the airline representative informed her that she wouldn’t be able to check her luggage without paying a 100 surcharge:

When it was finally Mary’s turn, she got the message that would crush her bubbling feeling of happiness.

-You’ll have to pay a 103 dollar surcharge if you want to bring both those suitcases to Norway , the man behind the counter said.

Mary had no money. Her new husband had travelled ahead of her to Norway , and she had no one else to call.

-I was completely desperate and tried to think which of my things I could manage without. But I had already made such a careful selection of my most prized possessions, says Mary.

As tears streamed down her face, she heard a ‘gentle and friendly voice’ behind her saying, ‘That’s okay, I’ll pay for her.’
Mary turned around to see a tall man whom she had never seen before.

-He had a gentle and kind voice that was still firm and decisive. The first thing I thought was, Who is this man?

Although this happened 20 years ago, Mary still remembers the authority that radiated from the man.

-He was nicely dressed, fashionably dressed with brown leather shoes, a cotton shirt open at the throat and khaki pants, says Mary.

She was thrilled to be able to bring both her suitcases to Norway and assured the stranger that he would get his money back. The man wrote his name and address on a piece of paper that he gave to Mary. She thanked him repeatedly. When she finally walked off towards the security checkpoint, he waved goodbye to her.

Who was the man?

Barack Obama.

Twenty years later, she is thrilled that the friendly stranger at the airport may be the next President and has voted for him already and donated 100 dollars to his campaign:

-He was my knight in shining armor, says Mary, smiling.

She paid the 103 dollars back to Obama the day after she arrived in Norway . At that time he had just finished his job as a poorly paid community worker* in Chicago , and had started his law studies at prestigious Harvard university.

Mary even convinced her parents to vote for him:

In the spring of 2006 Mary’s parents had heard that Obama was considering a run for president, but that he had still not decided. They chose to write a letter in which they told him that he would receive their votes. At the same time, they thanked Obama for helping their daughter 18 years earlier.

And Obama replied:

In a letter to Mary’s parents dated May 4th, 2006 and stamped ‘United States Senate, Washington DC ‘, Barack Obama writes:

‘I want to thank you for the lovely things you wrote about me and for reminding me of what happened at Miami airport. I’m happy I could help back then, and I’m delighted to hear that your daughter is happy in Norway . Please send her my best wishes. Sincerely, Barack Obama , United States Senator’.

The parents sent the letter on to Mary.

Mary says that when her friends and associates talk about the election, especially when race relations is the heated subject, she relates the story of the k ind man who helped out a stranger-in-need over twenty years ago, years before he had even thought about running for high office.

Truly a wonderful story, and something that needs to be passed along in the maelstorm of fear-and-smear politics we are being subjected to right now.

Lady F

 

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